I have just picked up my children and had a quick chat about the trampoline I had staked out in the garden. My wife immediately said I had staked it out in the wrong place (by 2 feet!!!), I told her to just visualise the trampoline 2 feet further down the garden. She wanted to make an issue of it but I deflected the critisism.
I then said I was going to get a pair of flip-flops from our bedroom. Before I could even finish the sentance she said "I'll get them". I responded by saying "No thats ok, I can get them". She then argued the point again and said this was not my house, I responded by saying it still is at the moment. So I followed her up the stairs and she gave them to me. I was not going to be bullied into not going into OUR bedroom, though she has removed anything to do with me. She was in quite an aggressive mood at this stage, though she accused ME of being aggressive.
I did my best not to be drawn into an argument and I then left with the children.
When I arrived back at the rental house I received a call from her telling me not to be so aggressive. She then went on to accuse me of snooping which she gave as the reason why I followed her into the bedroom.
I denied this, but clearly she still believes I am still pursing (asking her where she goes which was only last week in my case) and snooping which I do not. I have to stop NOW this pursing as I backslid last weekend and must stop now.
Bomb dropped: 19/12/08 Me:48 WAW:41 D:10 S:6 Married: 15 years
