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I guess the reason for me going off is to NOT say or do something to her that I'll regret.


You are absolutely right. It is better to say it here than to her.

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pestering me like some gnat at a picnic that refuses to die.


That made me laugh!!!

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Sorry for the rant I will say no more.


It's better to say what you feel than to keep it bottled up.