...You're getting great advice here, so I have nothing to add, other than to please be careful and CONFIRM (independently) that there's no contact going on. Because none of the above is going to work if she's emotionally shut off to you, and she WILL be emotionally shut off if she's still in contact...Peace,
Puppy
Great advice, but how can i confirm independently. I don't know her email password and her Blackberry is always locked (as is mine). Plus, I don't want to snoop - how can I confirm without violating her privacy? Any suggestions appreciated......Mike
If you're not willing to snoop, then you've answered your own question. "Privacy" is closing the bathroom door when you need to go potty. "Keeping secrets" is another matter, and keeping secrets from each other has no place in a marriage, and there is nothing wrong with independently confirming whether or not a predator is messing with your family.
