WAW - Very confused and devastated - pt 10

[The Wifey]

I couldn't imagine that my wife doesn't think that I am 100% committed to saving the marriage. She had thought when she felt that I stopped loving her that I gave up on the marriage, which is what drove this heartbreaking decision of hers.

What makes you think that she assumes I'm already moving on? How do you think I should get her to know about my commitment to her and our marriage?

So I guess the answer to you question "Can you get the nuance and DB, while being realistic it may not work, and still be that committed?" - no I don't think I get it.

Please be gentle with your 2x4's :-o

My 2x4's Always come padded.

secret decoder ahead (normally this is if I told you I would have to kill you info for women's eyes only):

The whole point of GAL and PMA is to make the WA blink. Wow, LBS is so upbeat and positive, hmmm am I doing the right thing here. I was so sure, now I am questioning it just a little. Am I so easy to get over?

LBS is so happy apparently, and I still don't feel all that great. WTF?!

She assumes you've given up by watching you. And you are doing really great at it. But then your actions are going to create cognitive dissonance. (Do a google search or use the search function on this site.)

And, you let her know your committment WITHOUT any words. With actions.

Any clearer?