WAW - Very confused and devastated - pt 10

[AlexEN]

I couldn't imagine that my wife doesn't think that I am 100% committed to saving the marriage. She had thought when she felt that I stopped loving her that I gave up on the marriage, which is what drove this heartbreaking decision of hers.

You need to imagine why your W felt that you stopped loving her. Your W desperately wants to be loved, she still is not getting it from you.

you are 100% committed, but the W doesn't know it.

Maybe try thinking about what your W could be wanting from her man? Change your perspective. You can handle it.
Cheers

Coach,

What if the only thing WAS wants from LBS is the one thing that's hardest to give -- the D?

-AlexEN