Trapt - I think you are right on track. I went through the anger stage too. It is all part of losing a tremendous amount of finances and time with the kids.
I hope so. My patience is just gone though. I can't stand having to deal with her, but she isn't going away however. So I need to do some serious work on getting rid of this.
I guess it was a sigh of relief for a little while, then boom here she comes again.
I guess the reason for me going off is to NOT say or do something to her that I'll regret.