Obviously I am still married. But what does it mean?
I honestly think this is a worthwhile question. This would be a big deal to anyone who is DBing. So, the D issue is off the table for now. The game doesn't change per se. But, my question would be more in the vein of how long am I willing to stay married to someone who is done with me?
For now Kevin, put it to bed! Do what you've got to do. Stay focused, listen to 25!!! The ball is in your court in a way. Why don't you try that on for size. You are master of your destiny. You will decide if you want to be married to her. Change the paradigm in your mind. It is powerful. Of course, she can file again. But your new paradigm is "I, Kevin, am taking the space I need to grow up and become the man I wasn't and the man I want to be and then I will decide if I want to be married." How about that?
