Why are you wasting time asking about what your wife does or doesn't do "means". It doesn't mean anything as far as you're concerned.
Keep up w/your positive changes, keep being the best dad you can be. Stop with the wife talk.
Jeez, Kevin -- this is why so many people have stopped posting to you. Including me, for the most part. How about the 24 hours without mentioning W -- how about the 100 days that 25 suggested?