To be honest, I haven't read alot of the DB materials so I can't be sure.

GAL- which I assume is getting a life- well he was already gone enough so that wouldn't have worked on me at all.

What I wanted to see was a partnership- someone who valued me- respected me- and most importantly someone who wanted to meet my needs. Someone who listened to me and took the time to intimately know me.

I came here just primarily to help men who might need my perspective.