Originally Posted By: Puppy Dog Tails

...You're getting great advice here, so I have nothing to add, other than to please be careful and CONFIRM (independently) that there's no contact going on. Because none of the above is going to work if she's emotionally shut off to you, and she WILL be emotionally shut off if she's still in contact...Peace,

Puppy


Great advice, but how can i confirm independently. I don't know her email password and her Blackberry is always locked (as is mine). Plus, I don't want to snoop - how can I confirm without violating her privacy? Any suggestions appreciated......Mike

Last edited by Mike in Phx; 06/03/09 05:23 PM.

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