because he's dumb for one thing...and for another he is involved with a person who helped break up your M right?? so I'm sure she has laid the law down to him and told him not to offer you support or be around you..especailly now...she's probably afraid that since you are at a vulnerable time in your life that if he offers you support then something could happen first..emotionally...that might start you both back towards each other..
...funny how laying down the law didn't work for me...
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If new guy is all that then he should understand..maybe you need to let him know exactly why you are finding yourself pushing him away...
Mike, he does understand. I don't think I am just pushing him away, it is everyone in my life. Everyone (him, mom, dad, friends) right now seems to be a constant reminder of how my life has changed and if I can just be by myself then I can feel just for a little bit that everything isn't in chaos.
You both are right. I will make an appointment with the doctor today. I always feel that I can handle things on my own, but I DO need help right now.
Mish, I did find a website for a grief group but it looked like it was geared more towards kids. I will call them and see what they have for adults.
