I've come full circle #26

[kat727]

So yesterday he came and took the kids early as part of his "new plan". He wants the kids early on the Tuesdays after he gets paid so that they can have some extra time to do stuff. I think it is a great idea in the summer when the kids tend to get "bored". We never got to talking about that on Monday night as we were too busy hurting each other.

What did bother me was that he went behind my back and talks to the kids about spending time with him and possibly extra time. He makes a big deal about us talking first and how he doesn't think we should say anything to the kids until things are decided. I already said no I didn't think additional time with the overnights was a good idea, especially with his move coming and new situations having to be coped with. He hears things the way he wants to.

Really that is the only negative that I am dealing with. I should be happy that he wants to be with them because I am sure that there are parents out there that don't want to see their kids at all. Sad.

kat