Glad you found this site and DR as quick as you did. This is a great support site.
1) Show her you LOVE HER by your actions, not words. Love = Patience and kindness. Do not go overboard.
2) Test the waters. Keep doing what works. Stop doing what does not work.
3) If she asks for space, give her all the space and more space she needs. Do you want her to miss you while you are away, or resent you for not listening to her wishes. Again, do what works. You want her to stop moving away and be drawn to you. You are starting a whole new relationship with her.
4) Not sure. Keep going to C. IC is also good.
5) I start most of my phone calls with "How are you" and then just listen, validate, understand......
Take this opportunity to work on you. Check out the books I have listed on the first post of my thread.
