Kathleen gives good advice. At one point, way way back..in the beginning of my sitch, my DB coach told me that I was 'making him dizzy' with all the reading, thinking, hypothesizing, etc. He told me to put down all the books...stop the phone calls and 'just be'.

Taking a break from posting is not a bad thing sometimes. It still comes down to YOUR decision about what YOU want.

FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;