Gypsy may be right. From time to time I take breaks from the BB's. This site can become overwhelming and the sometimes conflicting advice can confuse you. Sometimes you need to just take time to be quiet and think on your own.
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.