Isn't DB'ing about finding what works, and stopping what doesn't? I don't know the full history of your sitch, but from reading a bit of it, it appears you've been at this awhile. You're at a point of needing some kind of movement. It appears this worked. This time. I would almost call it a success!
You weren't begging him to come "home." You didn't sound needy. You sounded like a W that loves her H, and, IF he's agreed to start to rebuild the R/M, then you need some show of effort!
I'm with ya...
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
