Today I put on a sexy work outfit, perfume, just had my hair done with highlights and wore some killer dressy shoes. I've lost 25 lbs. since the bomb and today noticed that I lost 2 more lbs. Surely he's noticed. It has really boosted my self-esteem. H came to my office to see me b/c he was nearby for his work anyway, so I made sure that I looked my best. I think he noticed. Maybe the affair fogs are lifting?
Oh trust me, he's noticed. I'm a guy -- I know.
The problem is, as long as OW and he are in contact, he will continue to waffle back and forth, and he will be much more (entirely?) shut off to you emotionally. That's why 100% no-contact, backed by full and voluntary transparency, is so important.
I'm a guy -- I know.
