NDS, Sorry about the bad news. You just got hit with another bomb. You know the drill - take care of yourself, no communication with her while you are upset, vent, cry and remember this isn't all your fault. Get thru the day. I'll check back. Cheers Coach
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.