Oh, ok. I think he fully expects to support us. I have also noticed that his guilt really compels him to just about anything I tell him to. I am not saying this wont change (especially over time) but I think he knows I deserve something for my time (so crass).
I can't say that as time goes by he wont become resentful and difficult. I'm prepared for that. I feel very clear that I have a right to the support.
