Over the Shock and GALing 4

[Thinker]

Thanks Coach,

Looking at my own emotions and reactions, I think it is a combination of this (knowing my own wants and desires and differentiating those from needs and actions) and the discussion about social rules and social gray areas that was taking place on SP's thread.

I have an OK time if the rules say "Platonic only - just friends - no look no touch" and would obviously be perfectly happy if the rules said "Intimate Lovers", but really struggle personally with the "gray" area in the middle.

-- an opportunity for personal growth