Thanks Jeff

Yes, I really have changed in not taking a bait, not getting angry and wow he actually made the decision himself which really is something.

I still feel very sad of course but I do believe things should get calmer around here. I`ve accepted his decision so he`s free to go and that should give him some relief too.

I do hope all goes the best possible way for you! Dunno how your WAS is walking away esp since your obviously such a thoughtful guy, but that`s WAS s for you-just lose all sense of reality and logic.

Thanks for the hugs too! Just logging on here in the hopes of someone to talk to as I need to be around people-on the phone online and in the real world as much as possible right now. S`pose I just don`t want to get too sad in myself.

thanks for the xanax tip Peace. I`m partial to a drink too! But too mean to become addicted! And anyway, I`ve just had three xanax in the past three weeks so I should be ok.