First off, congratulations! For 20 years of M, for sticking out past June 1 and now you get those much needed and deserved benefits, and for not wavering when H 'begs'.
Your growth and strength you have gathered is tremendous.
I do wonder about your declining. Did you flat out decline in as - there is no way we will ever be back together or was there an option left open if H figures himself out?
Also, is your separation legal and binding or just physical because he is being relocated?
How are the boys handling all this? And, what about bff/ow? will that be a factor when H relocates?
There! plenty of things for you to talk about. Glad I could help. lol
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.
