@Thinker: That surprises me, given your background. Wasn't that a Life Of The Grey? Or did everything sort of change after Ivan went away?
A strange observation. I deal with (and have fun with) immense amounts of gray ambiguity in my work, business, travels, sports, etc. I work in business startups with no guarantees of success, I like nothing better than to set off for a weekend trip with no fixed destination, the most fun games are those where half the cards are hidden, etc.
But in social interactions (where the highest amounts of gray seem to be found), I try to avoid gray as much as possible.
I think it has to do with ones level of comfort in a particular area: less comfort == more desire for B&W.
Me 42, W 39, S8, S6, S2 M 11y, A & ILYBNILWY 11/08 Walking away from a bad situation.