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The only thing mildly unhealthy would be to EXPECT H to resolve that sense of entitlement for you.


Ok, I'm not getting this. I mean I could just leave with nothing and start over but I have two kids and have a business I would like to put my energy into with the hope that I don't plummet into the world of workhorse...my goal is self -sufficiency and I think I will be much better off when not dependent on H for money.

The resolution of the sense of entitlement to me is time...and me being diligent in my efforts to create a new life for myself. Am I wrong to think I should have that time and financial support? I don't think so, again provided I am doing my part.

SP- I'm pretty sure W will have to give you support. How does this play into your dynamic?

Oh- facebook...I got off of there long ago. Too much drama with H and discomfort for mutual friends. Coffee could be cool...kills the anonymity but would be mutual exposure. smirk