Ya know GH I never looked at it that way but its true. Fear of loosing, fear of change, fear of being alone, all those feelings made me pursue, chase, beg and fold. I know what I'm doing isn't going to change her but I am changing myself and am starting to stand taller. She texted me yesterday and I told her that I will not be meeting her to pick up the kids on her terms and would be working late. She didn't reply for over an hour and just said ok when she did. She called me later a couple of times throughout the day to talk about the kids but I did not fold. I'm going to call her tomorrow and tell her tha tI will be removing her and her car from the ins policy. This should cause some dramma but if she wants to be with OM then she can get him to pay for it. I will not anymore.
