SO2 thanks and I completely understand that the thing is we were friendly before for the last year + it's just been in the last few weeks that she's been doing things that she hasn't done for over a year.
I'm all cool with the friendly, no problem. Even when/if we D I'll be friendly. I just need to man up and ask her what's going on, in a nice way or maybe just ask how things are coming with the work she is doing on a settlement.
Me:40 W: 39 T: 17 years M: 15 years S-9 D-6 D final 11/10/2009
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