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IM so glad you are doing/ feeling better!

many of the techniques we use on our WAS do no impact on them
they are checked out of the R b/c they are shutdown
replay and OW help numb them and spending and all the other things trips, buting things new friends ect
they will try to stay in replay for as long as they can and avoid looking at any reality
good choice to move into your new life
yes it hurts but the growth you will attain will be for your highest good
you will change and become all you are suppose to be
if you use this as the lesson it was meant to be
as for you H..he will attain nothing thru this part of his journey until if ever he decide to also do this inner work
peace


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow