many of the techniques we use on our WAS do no impact on them they are checked out of the R b/c they are shutdown replay and OW help numb them and spending and all the other things trips, buting things new friends ect they will try to stay in replay for as long as they can and avoid looking at any reality good choice to move into your new life yes it hurts but the growth you will attain will be for your highest good you will change and become all you are suppose to be if you use this as the lesson it was meant to be as for you H..he will attain nothing thru this part of his journey until if ever he decide to also do this inner work peace
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