Over the Shock and GALing 4

[Thinker]

Pondering on our kids...

S6 has been very moody recently, and S4 just started wetting his bed again - almost every night.

I am wondering if it is because they are reacting to the tension between W and me. We try to keep it away from them, but they have almost certainly picked up on it.

In that case, should we talk to them about it? - "Your Mommy and I love you both very much. We also love each other, but are having trouble getting along...it's not your fault"

I am almost positive my W would balk at that - it would be putting a lot of pressure on her to formally involve the kids that way.

But still, what is best for them? We aren't getting divorced (yet) so there is no reason to formally tell them...