Over the Shock and GALing 4

[Thinker]

really emanating that shift in focus and detachment from her sexually can make a big difference.

This is where we are having difficulty. Sexual detachment in a monogamous R is equivalent to showing no interest in sex at all. Since we are not going to go outside of the M, It really would have to mean faking disinterest in both our W and in sex in general.

it was him taking the responsibility for his happiness off of me. That's it.

That I get!