Could use some insight...long...

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She wants to be your friend. She wants things to be friendly. Who wouldn't in either situation of divorced or together? It's the ideal situation. This is how my first exh and I talk. You are familiar. You are safe. Once again, not saying its an indicator of her feelings but just trying to get you to understand so you don't judge things like this as an indicator of the future.

I am still voting for the open communication in your sitch.