Welcome to the roller coaster - think we all know that too well.

My WAW sometimes seems very happy and interested to talk to me, and at other times, distant and cold (like texting me when I am out of town with S and saying "when can I call...I want to toalk to S."). Hurts, but I don't react.

My C says for me to "drag my feet" when it comes to talk about the D. He feels the more time I can hang in there and W not bring up D, that is a positive. Time as the healer?

I honestly do not think the WAS knows what they want - my W has told me she does not understand some of (the part she does not blame me for) why she feels the way she does towards me.


Me 43, S11, D7
M13
Bomb 4/20/09
Current