Ninety-Three: I'm no DB-Meister like PortlandDad or anything. As far as I'm concerned, my D is moving full-steam-ahead.
But I will say this about your attitude and your plan, such as it is -- I will have the 4-month "anniversary" of W's "I love you but" in around 10 days' time, and the distance I've come courtesy of this online community, reading, thinking and -- mostly -- TIME is unbelievable to me.
From being "totally done" and needing to "get out" and "get the noose off" and "breathe free again," my W is now inquiring about, and talking about, various methods for exploring rebuilding and renewal.
All of which I credit to time and hard-won detachment on my part. So your observation that "these busy days are for the best" is, from my limited POV, spot-on.
