Lost,

Please be careful. Although he's saying (and somewhat doing) some of the right things right now, you could just as easily make the case that he's following that "what they do when you ignore them" script above as well.

I still don't trust him.

And neither should you.

KUDOS to you, btw, for bravely doing what you did. I'm sorry I wasn't following your thread at the time, or I would have chimed in sooner. That was an incredibly brave thing you did for you and your children, and I know it couldn't have been easy.

Puppy