Could use some insight...long...

[volleydog]

a)go up to her ask if she minds you sitting with the family, b)ask her when she is going or call her when you are going to see about meeting there, c) continue to co-exist awkwardly in front of the K and whole world. Excellent opportunity on the spot or in advance.

I just don't want to put her in a position where she feels like she has to let me hang out. I've thought about b, which I think is the best option. C there is no awkwardness since the place is huge and when they're there I know where they'll sit, it's sort of the "family section" I'm in the "single people section".

I really don't care if she has or hasn't filed sure I could call today and find out but it really doesn't matter, I'm sure to find out when she does.

You are sooooo expecting a bad outcome.

I think you're right about this sort of it's more afraid of a bad outcome so I don't do anything as far as the M.

You can tell I am much in favor of talking things out in the open or at least let the other person what's on my mind and allow them to consider a response then or later.

You're right of course.

This morning on her way to work she calls me which is soooo unusual. She's sounding upset and couldn't quite get going with her thoughts...I'm thinking uh oh...She tells me last night someone cut three branches off a little (and I mean little) sapling I planted for her. She's really upset and so am I what the heck is wrong with people. To cut branches off a two foot tree...Anyway she's ok now just po'd.