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[pauld2100]

I was being kind and that day, I did simply return her anger that day not as bad as she was dishing it out but I did and knew right away it was wrong…
If I ask to see the kids knowing how she acts now she would do the opposite of everything I try to do… Even when they are asking to see me, I don’t think my sd has asked to see me but ss has asked me directly… I don’t even really want to talk to her so I will probably have to contact him myself and find a way to see him without her.. I really think she will find an excuse to not let me see him. That last meeting she was accusing me of coming to see her when he had asked me to come over…. See my dilemma? Seems anything she can find to stir up a fight and seriously it could be over any little thing that I do… No matter how kind or thoughtful it is….. I will have to do better at seeing them...