Ok. I can't speak for your wives but I was just like that with the sex. The ONLY thing that sparked my interest (and I mean I thought I was frigid, felt nauseous having sex with H), the only thing was him differentiating from me and taking some decisive action to change our sitch. Unfortunately, that action was him leaving and I hate the way he did it. But, something had to give. Someone's at my door. More in a minute.
