....but at this point I am shocked by how much responsibility I took for this early on. Thank you all for the advice and support.
Isn't that the truth brother! Kind of reminds me of when we were kids. Everyone says don't do it but we don't believe them.
You start to feel better when you understand more though don't you? Trick now though is not to lose sight of the things that we did do or could have been better at.
I have a couple of friends that their wives called it quits and they have mentioned some of the things the wives said. i humbly agree 100% with the WAW. One friend is controlling, arrogant and pushy. He became aware and was trying to change at first but in month 6 he started dating someone. AND poof... everything was forgoten, he did nothing wrong, wife was pshyco, Sad thing thing though... you can see the new girlfriend responding negativly to his actions...
