I adore you. I love how you address issues, are able to say the right thing to me .. whether it's a smack upside the head, something funny or equally caring. You are precious and a treasure.
With that said, may I suggest that you walk away from this board.. if not the board, the topic of your marriage. Just as friends can rush in to 'help' when a spouse first leaves, so can those who have walked the same path.
Each scenario is unique. Each way of addressing it depends on the individual. It seems the advice you're getting here is repetitive and has been for the past few threads.
