You know I have been thinking more about the differences in our sitch. I never saw my H soften towards his stance to leave. So that makes my decision to move on a whole lot easier.
But your sitch is different because you see some changes so hope is dangled like a carrot in front of you once in a while. It's hard to move on and away if you see hope.
I don't know whose sitch is easier to live with, neither I suppose.
But I do wish you the best of luck with your move and your new life forward. Being stuck where you were was not fun and you deserve so much better, whichever way he decides to go.
Me:39 H:40 S:9 D:7 First Bomb ONS:June 07 Second Bomb OW: March 08 Separated: March 08 M:15 yrs T:18 yrs H deep into A with OW Achieved ACCEPTANCE May 30, 09