Hey Kev, what is your gut feeling? Do you think she would say yes and be relaxed at lunch?
If you think it would work, then by all means. But if you think you guys are not there yet then I would try flirting first.
I know from my sitch with my MIL. She is pursuing me like crazy to bring kids to see her and it's a BIG turnoff. So I can get a bit of what WAS feels when the LBS is too pushy. I keep thinking, 'Don't you understand the word 'no'?' 'Why aren't you listening to me?'
So what does your gut tell you?
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