Yet another e-mail from MIL.

She doesn't understand no.

She listed all the 'fun' activities that she would do with the children and all I had to do was bring the kids out. I have not told her that the main reason I didn't want to visit was because I felt betrayed by her as well. Previously I just wrote her that I needed time to recooperate from the traumatic events of the last two years and also have time to write my book.

So she won't take 'no' for an answer.

I am not angry now, just annoyed. I think I'm just going to ignore this e-mail for now. If anyone out there has any ideas, let me know. I tried talking to her, I tried e-mailing her. She won't listen.


Me:39
H:40
S:9
D:7
First Bomb ONS:June 07
Second Bomb OW: March 08
Separated: March 08
M:15 yrs
T:18 yrs
H deep into A with OW
Achieved ACCEPTANCE May 30, 09

'Yes, I can.'