How Do You Forgive?

[Sugar and Spice]

EH...just going to throw this out there, but even if something is deleted from a computer, there are several software options out there that enable it to be recovered. I guess it just depends how far you want to go and what you choose to do.

I personally would contact a professional and get those emails back and report her. No matter what the outcome is, that type of predatory behavior is not appropriate or ethical for someone who has that type of relationship with people. Most people do not enter counseling because they are fine, have no problems and are completely in charge/control of their emotions and faculties.

Also from my perspective, your H is not being honest or forthright with you and his deletion of the evidence tells me there is something to hids. Get the Not Just Friends book and read it. It helps.