Thanks Kas and SO2. You're right about the BD thing. I would have to be reminded every year. And, all my friends are planning a Divorce party for me....kinda funny.
A couple weeks ago I had a bbq at my house and H dropped K off and I lied to my friends and said that my brother was bringing her because if they knew H was outside, they would have jumped him. These are people that used to be good friends with him and go riding and hang out together. They can't stand him anymore.
M 5yrs 1st baby-girl born 6/18/08 Bomb: 10/13/07 OW - I was 6wks Prego H Moved in w/OW: 11/2/07 D Final 07/10 OW had his baby 3/17/09-so her Me, now - happier than I ever was with him