Things between my W and I are quiet, friendly, and carefully detached. I get up before her and work out. We chat a bit as we get the kids out the door in the morning - friendly. We go our separate ways during the day. We eat dinner together in the evenings after the kids are in bed - friendly chat about the day. After dinner we go to our separate offices. I have been going to bed first and falling asleep right away.
Minimal interactions, No stress, no R discussions, no physical contact.
Thinker, that's about where we were on the days prior to me moving out. Now I'm quiet waiting for her move.
"My actions are my only true belongings. I cannot escape the consequences of my actions. My actions are the ground upon which I stand." Thich Nhat Hanh