This is probably against DB techniques but I always disagreed with my wife about how our kids would not be affected if we divorced. I would calmly say I do not agree with that, there are far too many studies that confirm that even with amical divorces the long term effects on kids can be significant.
I agree, I two have done this exact same thing. Yes, kids might "get over it" but they will never be as well off.
H35 W34 S4 | T-10 yrs M-6 yrs WAW said M over 04/09 | Living separate since 09/09 Thread #1 Thread #2 Thread #3