Renee, the OW was only about 8yrs younger than me. She had a colourful reputation! My x and his wife now live abroad. I have not seen him in just over 6 years. I have spoken to him about 5 times in that time. The last time to tell him he was a grandad,2 years ago. I have moved on and have a life but no there is no one special in it. My children all live away but we have lots of phone calls and get together when ever we can. They all have busy lives and is how it should be, but we are close.
