Eh... my thoughts are in line with not making rash decisions. I'm as proud as they come, and virtually 99% of my family was in the "dump her now" camp, but I find it is important for your own self to give yourself time to calm down and make a decision not based on emotion... otherwise you might regret that decision later.
I know I gave myself several months, and I am resigned to the fact I've done everything I could, more than could be expected, and that I'll be fine. I can hold my head high knowing I did everything I could.
"You can't reason someone out of a position they didn't reason themselves into."
