Yea, me too. Everything points to it. I keep thinking about other things he's said to me months ago. One condom was missing from the box he threw out. He said he had it in his wallet and got rid of it. Lies!

During one argument, he also said that communicating with another woman (someone else that I thought he was having an EA with) "was the biggest mistake of his life." and that I was going to "poison our son against him." Now that I think about it, I bet their PA started in February when he admitted to wanting an affair.

Last edited by eternaloptimist; 06/02/09 08:45 PM.

Me 39, H 41
M 17, T 21
Son, 4
Bomb 2.09, Two EAs
Separated 8.4.09
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