Yes, I have DR and DB books as well as several others. I also did 3 phone calls with a DB coach. Your advice is good, but I can't forgive a PA. EA is different, I can forgive that. I especially can't forgive the PA b/c it was with his therapist, a woman whom I trusted and confided in. I feel doubly betrayed.
Me 39, H 41 M 17, T 21 Son, 4 Bomb 2.09, Two EAs Separated 8.4.09 My Long Story and First Postings