no woman no cry

[fisherman]

I just needed to vent. If I don't do it here, I will eventually go OFF on her. I can't do that. It just makes crazy even crazier.

That's it though, I was kid free last weekend and would have loved to have them. I have had my fill of going out or having drinks or whatever. I don't date, but I've been doing a few new things that are enjoyable. I just get upset when she has the kids and choses to dump them. I would rather have them.

[Mach1]

Look, you know me well enough by now that I'm going to give you grief anyway...

I know you are just venting, but i don't want to see you stuck in it. Sometimes laughter is a cure all.

I read somewhere .....Stand...But don't stand still.

I'll have to remember where I saw that.....

[fisherman]

I read somewhere .....Stand...But don't stand still.

I'll have to remember where I saw that.....

Sh*t.... beats me??

[fisherman]

I know you are just venting, but i don't want to see you stuck in it. Sometimes laughter is a cure all.

I'm not stuck, just really beginning to have some questions. Sometimes I feel I'm the crazy one for trying to leave the door cracked.

[Mach1]

It's okay to leave the door cracked open. Just don't keep looking through it to see what is happening on the other side.

Whatever happens is what is going to happen....

Crazy is getting your finger stuck if the door shuts when the hurricane comes through.

So.....vent away B*tch....

[fisherman]

Vent away huh??

I'm sorry, but I'm not cut out for monkdom.(?)

[SoCo]

Yeah, mine has been dumping the kids too. It pisses me off. Hello, you only see them every other weekend and at an occasional ball game!! Wouldn't you want to spend time with them? I will not ever understand that. I have them every day and still miss them when they leave... I totally understand your pissed offedness (haha) about that.

[dl443322]

T, first of all, I wish I was there when you showed up at that bar. I would have paid to see that.

I dont think you are b#itching too much. Here's the place to do it.

These women amaze me. I cannot relate at all. Makes me a little embarasses to be the same gender.

[sofaraway]

I know you are just venting, but i don't want to see you stuck in it. Sometimes laughter is a cure all.

I'm not stuck, just really beginning to have some questions. Sometimes I feel I'm the crazy one for trying to leave the door cracked.

Leaving the door cracked doesnt mean not closing it, it means don't deadbolt it shut.

It's not crazy to want what you believed in once. It's not insane to always desire what you thought life was supposed to be.

I don't understand why you have any questions at all right now. Seems to me you should have absolutely nothing to say at all.


Ian

[fisherman]

I think I understand what your saying Ian. Live life and whatever happens....well happens.

I think a lot of it has to do with this time of year. It all started around now back in 07. Then the bomb came in May of 08.

I'll be fine. I guess the questions that I have are ones dealing with the kids. Will I be able to look them in the eye and say without a doubt that I did all I could.

I have either avoided or turned down going out on a dates. I'm a long way away from anything serious, but at this same time...well I don't have to tell you. You have been there. It would be nice to spend a little time with someone. Again I'm not really looking for it but hey if it happens it happens.

Slow and steady.